Trans people are always asked about “the surgery”. Let’s stop defending what we do or don’t get done, and embrace all of our bodies.
What might be a “privilege” for you or me might be necessary for another’s safety and survival.
“De-transitioning” needs to be discussed more often, though the trans agenda doesn’t want to. Not undergoing “everything”, too, doesn’t mean you’re de-transitioning, either. As for me…
By saying you’re genderqueer, you may really be hurting your cause to erase gender roles.